Reading for Thought: One-sided Love.

I have something I would like to share with everyone who reads my blog.
A friend of mine had shown me this:


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Reading for Thought: One-sided Love.

Hardly any other thing can bring up both extremes at the same time like love. It could be the source of immense pleasure or acute pain. Reciprocation makes lover the luckiest man in the world while non-reciprocated love could be source of all miseries. Love requires response and lack of it could bring up an ocean of sorrows.

Despite all these defining love could be a challenging task. It is not necessary that the love to be real has to be reciprocated. It is mostly one way traffic. True lover excels in giving not taking. True love does not ask for returns. Yet all said and done, when there is no response from the special one, it really hurts. 

It is very difficult accepting the fact that your love is neither wanted nor reciprocated. It is even more hurting when not even a glance is awarded to your love. Yet people fell in love and fell head long into the ravine. Reason is that in love there is no choice. Everyone has a Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde in him or her and when good overcomes the bad, love just dominates. Love is blind and when one falls in love the trust for the loved one is unblemished. Yet with such unblemished love, rejection seems very disappointing and leaves the lover heartbroken. 

Love that is one sided, is nothing but like falling in love without realizing the consequences. Just like people wishing for the moon realizes that it can never be theirs. Depression will come but will be a passing phase only with the supreme glow of love quickly overtaking. 

Yet there are certain inherent dangers in the one way relationships. One of the partners, who are not in love, might take advantages from the one who is madly in love. Worst part of it is that while exploiting the partner, they never feel guilty. Usually it is finance or physical advantages that are the motivators in such cases. It could be too late by the time the victim realizes that there has been a serious breach of trust.

Getting over the one way relationship could be essential but the million dollar question is how to accomplish the task. One of the best ways would be stopping thinking about the love. Remaining busy otherwise and doing things to keep the mind occupied would help. Wallowing in some type of self pity won’t help. Believing in one’s ability would be the surest way of getting out of the pit and refraining from making false commitments would be a step in the right direction.


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Credits to him and a certain relationship book because this section is extracted from there. :)

I hope this would help any of you who are stuck in such a situation. I believe this would help a lot of you could put in your effort into it.

On the side note, I darken my hair! Now, look at the red glow under the sun... >:D